The Essence of Hartalika Teej: Celebrating Women’s Devotion and Strength
Hartalika Teej is a vibrant and major festival of hindu women and is celebrated on the third day of the bright half of the Nepali Lunar month of Bhadra. Dedicated to Goddess Parvati, commemorating her union with Shiva, the festival is celebrated for the well-being of spouse and purification of one’s body and soul.
The celebration lasts for three days, each with its own importance. Women from various castes in Nepalese society, such as the Bahun, Chettri, Kiratis, and others, celebrate this festival with great belief and enthusiasm.
The first day, known as “Darr Khaney Din,” is all about celebration and joy. Women gather for a sumptuous feast, enjoying delicious food, singing, and dancing. This day is a special occasion where women dress up in their finest attire and use makeup to its fullest extent, embracing the freedom to express themselves. It’s a time to reminisce about their wedding and sing devotional songs dedicated to Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. This day of celebration is also a chance for women to share their joys and sorrows through the songs they sing and the dances they perform.
Second day follows with women observing a strict fast (Nirahar Brata). Married women refrain from eating or drinking, believing that their devotion will bring longevity, peace, and prosperity to their husbands and families. Unmarried women fast with the hope of finding a good husband. They visit nearby Shiva temples, where they worship Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. The ritual includes circumambulating the Shiva Linga and making offerings of flowers and fruits. After completing this pooja (religious ceremony), women break their fast the following morning.
The last and third day of the festival, called “Rishipanchami,” focuses on purity and cleansing. Women take ritual baths to cleanse themselves of any “sin” from touching a man during menstruation. They pay homage to seven saints or sages and offer prayers to deities. Traditional practices include bathing with red mud from the roots of the sacred datiwan bush and its leaves. After the rituals, women gather once more to sing and dance, sharing devotional and folk songs that reflect their lives, struggles, and devotion in marriage, all while praying for happiness and prosperity.
While the essence of Hartalika Teej remains the same, the way it is celebrated can vary from region to region and among different groups. This festival is cherished by Hindu women across Nepal and in some parts of India, bringing communities together in devotion and celebration.